Below are 10 stimulating discussion questions that should help you discover valuable information about your fiance's feelings and thoughts concerning marriage. It is important not to just live in the present world of "getting married", but to dig deep to find the critical building blocks that make up a successful marriage. Also, writing your answers down on a piece of paper will help to clarify your thoughts. We hope the following will help stimulate thought and spark great discussion. Always remember that we're here to help.

1. Define Marriage. What do you believe is its Purpose? 2. Do you believe that marriage is a contract? Why or Why not? 3. Who do you think originated the idea of marriage? You might want to consult the ultimate marriage manual, the bible, in Genesis 2:18-25 for the answers. 4. List 8 ways you believe that you are different from your fiance. 5. List 8 ways you believe that you are similar to your fiance? 6. List 8 expectations you will have for your future spouse. These can be as simple as, "I expect my husband to go shopping with me each week," or "I expect to have sex 4 times a day." 7. Write three goals you have for your marriage and share them with one another. 8. Did you know that communication is 7% content, 38% tone and 55% non-verbal? Take a moment and discuss how this affects your marriage. 9. List 3 causes of conflict in your current relationship. 10. The success of your marriage is directly a attributable to how you resolve conflict. How are you doing in this area? Perhaps we can be a resource for that help! Taken From Before You Say,"I Do" By Dr. H. Norman Wright and Wes Roberts Remember the goal of Marriage Resources - To develop strong, happy marriages that will last a lifetime! DON'T FORGET TO ADD BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO" AND MARRIAGE KIT TO YOUR "MUST HAVE" LIST ON YOUR WEDDING GIFT REGISTRY.

 

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